Part One The Journey- the Experience
To begin, we will listen together to A Night on Buddy’s Bench – An End of Life Story. The participants will have an opportunity to explore A Pilgrim’s Way Through Grief as a three phase spiritual journey. First, The Call to the Bench to face one’s own or another’s end of life; Second, Being On the Bench, wrestling with loss and grief, making meaning, seeking solace. Third; Returning from the Bench holding grief and gratitude together. This perspective can help us to be kind and patient with others and ourselves in the face of loss. Ira writes, “In this time of social isolation, our ability to hold our feelings of loss and the preciousness of life is a spiritual calling we’re all facing.”

Part Two A Pilgrim’s Way through Grief
We will explore ways to use A Night on Buddy’s Bench in grief work, specifically, how to use the story of Buddy’s Bench to help individuals and groups in their bereavement. Examples will be shared about how to use the story as a springboard for discussions, grief journaling, creative art expression, and in creating rituals.

Hospice Trainings and Book Event Comments

“May I lend my voice to the many people who attended your presentation at our quarterly meeting last week. Hope you realize how much your words touched folks. So many accolades for you! In today’s world, the issues of loss and grief are front and center. We need to do everything we can to address them priority. Our wellness as a society depends on it, with so much appreciation for your presentation and donations.”

Kandyce Powell

Executive Director, Maine Hospice Council and Center for End of Life Care

“On behalf of the Down East Hospice Volunteers Board and staff, I wish to convey our gratitude for the copies of A Night on Buddy’s Bench and A Pilgrim’s Way through Grief by Ira Baumgarten. We will look for ways to include the concepts and approaches expressed in our bereavement efforts. Both the publications and the Zoom presentation at the Maine Hospice Council Quarterly Education meeting by Ira are a credit to the Maine Hospice Council.”

Paul R. Strickland, Board President
Down East Hospice, Maine

Ira has conducted workshop, discussions and/or installations

with the following organizations:

Maine Hospice Council and Center for End of Life Center, Augusta, ME
Hospice & Palliative Care Federation of Massachusetts, Wrentham, MA
The Arc of New York Guardianship Program, Latham NY

Venice Peace Project, Venice, FL

MaineCare at Home Hospice, Camden, ME
Sussman Hospice House, Rockland, ME
Saratoga Community Hospice, Saratoga, NY
Hospice & Palliative Care Association, Albany, NY
CareFirst Hospice, Painted Post, NY
American Meditation Institute, Averill Park, NY
Arts, Letters and Numbers, Averill Park, NY
Monhegan Library, Monhegan, ME
Sierra Madre Public Library, Sierra Madre, CA
Book House, Albany, NY
Log Cabin Books, East Greenbush, NY
Burden Lake Book Club, Averill Park, NY

Hospice Resources

Conversation Project

Dedicated to helping people talk about their wishes for end-of-life care

Link

National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization

The National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization (NHPCO) is the largest nonprofit membership organization representing hospice and palliative care

programs and professionals in the United States. The organization is committed to improving end-of-life care and expanding access to hospice care with the goal of profoundly enhancing quality of life for people dying in America and their loved ones

Link

National Hospice Foundation

NHF is the fundraising affiliate of the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization. As the national charity for end-of-life care, NHF is responsible for soliciting and stewarding charitable gifts received to National Hospice

Link

No Veteran Dies Alone

Volunteer Program – US Veteran Administration

Music and Memory

Is a non-profit organization that brings personalized music into the lives of the elderly or infirm through digital music technology, vastly improving quality of life

Link

Hospice Foundation of America

Grief support information - what is hospice - how to choose a hospice

Link

Medicare Hospice Benefits

Booklet to explain Medicare Hospice services

Link

NHPCO Caring Info

Resource for families on grief and loss, advance care planning

Link

Stephen Jenkinson

Author of Die Wise